When a nanny role comes through an agency, ask who the proposed employer is and how the agency, household and administrative contacts fit together. Recruitment, day-to-day instructions and employment administration can involve different people. A useful explanation names each role instead of relying on “you work through us.”
This guide helps you obtain an understandable contact and responsibility map. It does not determine legal employer status or worker classification. For the earlier choice between recruitment routes, see agency or direct job search. Here, the task is clarifying the arrangement attached to a particular opportunity.
Start with the named arrangement
Read the posting and offer documents for the employer's stated identity. Ask the recruiter to explain whether the agency is introducing you to a family that will employ you or proposing employment by the agency for the assignment. If another entity is named, ask what part it plays.
Philadelphia Nanny Network's candidate overview describes both agency-employed and family-employed models. This is one provider's explanation of its services, not a reason to assume that another agency uses either model or that every PNN vacancy has the same arrangement.
Keep the job reference with your question. “Who would be my employer for this particular role?” is more precise than asking how nanny agencies generally work. Ask where the answer appears in the documents you are being asked to review.
Map instructions, decisions and administration separately
A household may explain the children's routine while a different contact handles scheduling questions or employment paperwork. Ask how those responsibilities connect. You need a clear route when a request affects more than one part of the arrangement.
Use these original prompts:
- Employer named in the documents: What name is used, and which document states it?
- Daily instructions: Who explains the agreed care routine and communicates changes?
- Assignment changes: Who can approve a different location, schedule or scope?
- Administrative questions: Who receives time records and resolves errors?
- Employment questions: Who answers questions about the offer and ongoing terms?
- Unavailable contact: What alternative route applies during an assignment?
A payment system or payroll-service name does not answer the employer question by itself. If that is the only name you recognize, ask for the relationship to be explained. Likewise, a recruiter remaining helpful after placement does not by itself establish that the recruiter is your employer.
Read the documents as one arrangement
Compare the written offer, assignment confirmation and any referenced policies. Note the version and date of each. Look for differences in names, responsibilities or communication routes, then ask the appropriate contact to reconcile them.
Do not solve a discrepancy by choosing the document that sounds most favorable. “The offer names one party, but this instruction directs employment questions elsewhere; how do these fit together?” allows the recruiter to address the actual ambiguity.
If an answer changes the proposed arrangement, request the relevant updated document. Keep an unanswered item visible instead of marking it resolved because someone said the process was straightforward. Use work-agreement review for a fuller check of the role's written terms.
Follow a fictional extra-time request
Fictional example: Riley accepts an assignment through a service. The documents name the agency as employer and identify its scheduling contact for changes. During a visit, the parent asks Riley to stay later and says they will “sort it out directly.”
Riley explains that the request needs to follow the assignment-change route and contacts the named scheduler. Riley also states their actual availability. The agency and parent then need to confirm an arrangement; the original booking is not silently overwritten by an informal suggestion.
In another fictional role, the documents identify the family as employer and the agency as the recruiter. The nanny asks the family which person approves schedule changes and whether the agency remains involved in that discussion. The questions are similar, but the confirmed contact map is different. Neither example establishes what the law would decide about a real arrangement.
Finish with a usable contact card
Create a private card containing the job reference, stated employer, everyday contact, change-approval contact and administrative contact. Add the approved channel and an alternative contact where one has been provided. Keep confidential household information in the designated work system.
Test the card against three ordinary situations: a missing instruction, an incorrect time entry and a proposed change to tomorrow's assignment. If you cannot identify the next contact for one of them, ask before that issue arises. A map is useful only if it leads to a person or process that actually handles the question.
If the documents and explanation remain inconsistent, leave the arrangement unresolved and seek appropriate advice about the specific issue. A website label, invoice or payroll logo is not a substitute for that review. Your immediate goal is to understand what is being proposed and which written information supports it.
Sources
Philadelphia Nanny Network: candidate overview, accessed October 27, 2026. Used narrowly for its description of agency-employed and family-employed models. The contact map and fictional examples are original NAJ planning tools; no legal classification, tax treatment or entitlement is inferred.