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When a parent works from home, establish how the working day will run before relying on the fact that you share an address. You need to know which spaces are available, how to reach the parent and when responsibility for the children changes hands. A parent appearing in the kitchen does not tell you whether they are taking over care or getting a drink between meetings.

Use a short working-day plan to make those distinctions explicit. The questions below are for a nanny providing childcare while parents work, with room for planned visits and clear handovers. The plan can be adjusted as the household learns what works.

Describe the day without assuming availability

Ask which parts of the day involve meetings, focused work, flexible time or time away from the house. You do not need access to private work details. You need the practical information that affects contact and the use of shared rooms.

USNA includes a question about establishing structure when parents work at home. US Nanny Association interview questions.

Build your discussion around a real upcoming day. Where will you begin care? Which rooms can you use? Does a parent plan to join lunch, and will they remain responsible for their work during that visit? Ask what the plan is when a meeting runs longer than expected. Do not assume a closed door means no contact under any circumstances or that an open door means the parent is available.

Complete a contact-and-space worksheet

This original worksheet turns broad preferences into practical arrangements. Fill it out together and keep the current version somewhere you can both find it.

  • Work block: Your planned start and finish, plus the first and final handovers.
  • Care spaces: Rooms and outdoor areas available during this block.
  • Shared spaces: When you can use spaces that also support the parent’s work.
  • Work spaces: Areas that are private or unavailable, and any planned exception.
  • Routine contact: The agreed channel for questions that can wait.
  • Time-sensitive contact: How to reach the parent when a decision cannot wait for the next check-in.
  • Parent visits: Any expected visit, its approximate duration and whether care responsibility changes.
  • Changes to the day: Who communicates a new meeting or room restriction, and through which channel.
  • Handover wording: How both adults will confirm that one is taking over.
  • Review point: When you will discuss what needs adjusting.

Keep emergency arrangements in the household’s established emergency plan. The contact fields here organise ordinary working-day communication; they do not replace that plan or ask you to delay necessary action.

Make parent visits and handovers explicit

A parent may want to join a snack, read with a child or spend time together during a break. Discuss what that visit means for your role. You might remain responsible throughout, switch to another agreed task while the parent takes over or take your planned break. These are different arrangements and need different confirmation.

Use a short exchange at the actual transition: “Are you taking over now until 1 p.m.?” followed by an affirmative answer. When you resume, confirm that too. Avoid leaving responsibility to an assumption based on who is physically closest to the child.

If a parent needs to return to a meeting early, the changed handover still needs an answer. Agree how they will contact you if you are elsewhere in the home doing an assigned task. A calendar can show the intended transition, but the adults still need to know the transition has happened.

Work through a sample day

Fictional example: Priya works from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. while parent Alex works in a home office. They agree that Priya uses the playroom and kitchen, and Alex adds room-use changes to their shared plan the previous afternoon when possible.

Alex has meetings from 9 to 11 a.m. Routine questions go into their agreed message thread for later. A time-sensitive question uses a direct call. At noon Alex plans to join lunch for twenty minutes, with Priya continuing care. Nobody treats that visit as the start of Priya’s break.

At 1 p.m. Alex has separately agreed to take over while Priya uses her planned break. Priya asks, “You’re taking over until 1:30?” Alex confirms. At 1:30 they explicitly hand back. If Alex’s work prevents that arrangement, they discuss a revised plan before the scheduled handover rather than leaving Priya to guess.

At the end of the week, they notice that an afternoon call repeatedly occupies the kitchen. They agree a specific alternative space and update the next week’s plan. They address the room conflict without making claims about anybody’s intentions.

Review patterns with concrete examples

If the arrangement becomes difficult, bring a recent event and the decision it requires. “On Tuesday I could not access the kitchen during the planned lunch period. Can we agree which space to use when that call runs late?” is more actionable than “Working from home never works.”

Likewise, if visits regularly become unplanned handovers, describe the ambiguity: “When you joined us yesterday, I was unsure whether you wanted me to continue care. Can we use our handover wording each time?”

Review one or two recurring issues at a time. Record the agreed change, start date and next check-in. The useful outcome is a day that both adults can follow, including how to adjust it when work schedules move.

Sources

US Nanny Association: Questions a Nanny Should Ask.