A job can say “driving required” without telling you whether you will have access to a vehicle, permission to use it for each expected task, or a workable process for expenses. Before agreeing, ask the family to describe the actual arrangement and identify anything still awaiting confirmation.
Knowing how to get to a school is a different question from knowing which car you are expected to take. This guide focuses on the vehicle, permissions and records behind the driving duties. Bring the questions to the agency or family before a transport commitment becomes part of your working week.
Turn “driving required” into a defined arrangement
The International Nanny Association’s hiring guide recommends recording driving responsibilities and vehicle arrangements in the work agreement.
Start by separating your journey to work from driving during work. “You need a car” might refer to either, and the answer affects whether the vacancy fits your circumstances. If you can commute reliably but are not offering your vehicle for work, say that directly. If you are considering using your vehicle, make that agreement conditional on resolving the outstanding details.
Ask for examples of a normal week and an unusual week. Would the role involve children’s activities, household errands, transporting another family’s child, or driving when the family travels? Record each proposed use separately. A broad willingness to drive does not explain which of those tasks you have discussed.
Identify the vehicle and who controls access
Ask the employer to name the proposed vehicle, rather than relying on “the family car.” If more than one adult uses it, find out who coordinates availability and what happens when two people need it at once. A shared calendar may help, but someone still needs responsibility for resolving conflicts.
Original worksheet: vehicle and permission record
- Regular vehicle: Which vehicle is proposed for the duties we have discussed, and who confirms that arrangement?
- Shared access: Who else uses it, and how will I know it is available for my work?
- Authorized use: Which work tasks and passengers are included in the proposed permission?
- Personal use: Is any personal use being offered, and where are its separate terms recorded?
- Changes: Who must approve a substitute vehicle or a new type of driving assignment?
- Unavailable vehicle: Who decides the alternative arrangement if the agreed vehicle cannot be used?
Complete this record with the employer. Do not fill gaps by assuming that access to keys establishes every necessary permission.
Give policy questions an owner and a deadline
The US Nanny Association’s interview questions include transportation arrangements, insurance and vehicle costs as discussion topics.
Use that as a reason to ask for a proper review of the proposed arrangement. Ask the employer and an appropriately qualified insurance professional what applies to the particular driver, vehicle and uses. Describe the intended duties accurately, including any proposed changes. This article cannot determine coverage or tell you which policy is sufficient.
A useful question is: “Who will obtain the relevant confirmation, what information do they need from me, and when will we review the answer?” Follow it with: “Where will we keep the confirmation and the contact for further questions?” You need a clear outcome, not a folder of unfamiliar paperwork that nobody has explained.
If a review is outstanding, mark it outstanding. Ask the family to arrange an alternative until the proposed driving duties are confirmed. Revisit the question when the vehicle or duties change.
Agree how costs and maintenance decisions are handled
“Keep the receipts” leaves several decisions unresolved. Ask which expenses the proposed arrangement covers, who approves them, how records should be submitted, and when the employer will review them. Discuss fuel, parking, tolls and other anticipated costs as distinct items. Record the agreed terms without assuming that every expense follows the same process.
Keep maintenance responsibilities equally specific. Who arranges servicing for the agreed vehicle? Who receives a report about a problem? Who decides whether a replacement arrangement is needed? Asking those questions does not mean volunteering to manage the family’s vehicles.
Original worksheet: expense and administration record
- Purchase method: What payment method will be supplied or agreed before a work expense occurs?
- Approval route: Who can approve an unplanned expense, and how should the request be recorded?
- Submission: Which receipts or other records are requested, and where do I send them?
- Review: Who checks the submission, and when should I expect an answer?
- Maintenance contact: Who owns appointments, decisions and follow-up?
- Incident contacts: Which employer, policy or service contacts should be included in the agreed reporting plan?
These are arrangement questions, not a statement of reimbursement rights or an incident-response procedure.
Test the plan against a vehicle change
Fictional example: Rowan interviews for a role advertised as using the family’s car. During the discussion, a parent mentions taking that car to appointments twice a month. The parent initially suggests that Rowan could use their own car on those days.
Rowan has not agreed to that substitution. They ask the family to resolve vehicle availability and any relevant policy review before adding it to the role. The family instead proposes keeping its car available during Rowan’s hours, with a named parent arranging an alternative if that becomes impossible. They record the decision and the person responsible for changes.
The useful result is not simply “car provided.” It is a plan that identifies the vehicle, handles conflicting use and avoids treating an unexpected substitution as already agreed.
Before accepting, send a short written recap of the settled arrangement and the unresolved items, each with an owner and review date. Ask the family to confirm it. Keep driving duties pending where essential answers are still missing.